February 2012
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joshishollywood: The funniest anti-abortion argument is “what if you were aborted” How the hell would anyone have anything even vaguely resembling a concept of what that would be like WHAT IF YOU NEVER EXISTED?! I dunno, then I’d never exist and I wouldn’t have any particular opinions about it?
Feb 23rd
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In case there's still any confusion about this
I don’t think hitting kids is okay.  I don’t think that you’re OMG A HUGE RACIST if you’re not down with corporal punishment or that ALL PEOPLE OF COLOR HIT THEIR KIDS (I am living evidence of this not being the case). I just think when we’re talking about how to be a good parent we need to be mindful of a) how deviant forms of parenthood are racialized, b) where...
Feb 23rd
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There are a lot of posts I keep seeing today about spanking kids as a form of punishment. Did something happen to start this conversation, or…?
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Oh Tumblr. 
Feb 22nd
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kalemason replied to your photo: When I’m not busy having exotic sexuality ascribed… holy shit is that yr dining hall?? Haha one of them, yeah. Our old fancy one :-P
Feb 22nd
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lauralovegood replied to your photo: When I’m not busy having exotic sexuality ascribed… Hey that sounds like me! Wooo! I’m sad there aren’t more “take back our tags” posts on the Latina tag.
Feb 22nd
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Feb 22nd
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fuguestasis replied to your post: I promise I talk about things other than suicide… i have/my blogs has these days too. Earlier today someone made a DV joke on Facebook about Rihanna collaborating with Chris Brown and I just about lost it so I have just been in a pissy mood today T_T. 
Feb 22nd
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HOW TO PISS OFF PEOPLE BASED ON THEIR ZODIACS →
Taurus – Hide or damage their valuables. Use their stuff without first asking permission. Take their money. Starve them. Give them food that looks, tastes or smells unpleasant. Give them a gaudy or cheap gift. I feel like any of these things would piss off just about anyone. Especially starvation. 
Feb 22nd
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gayblackgreekandgeek replied to your post: gayblackgreekandgeek replied to… We will fix it while we’re senior springing. If need be, I will come over with movies Yesss I am down for a movie day. 
Feb 22nd
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gayblackgreekandgeek replied to your post: quentin Rachel, this is not okay. Neither of those are representative of how awesome Tarantino is. You should watch Pulp Fiction or Kill Bill, for reals I knoooowwww I have wanted to watch Pulp Fiction for a while but never gotten around to it. 
Feb 22nd
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I promise I talk about things other than suicide and partner violence on this blog O_O
Feb 22nd
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[TW: suicide, death, and "forever." VERY BIG...
fucky0urg0d: quixoticlyqueer: livelaughawesome: quixoticlyqueer: livelaughawesome: quixoticlyqueer: cocksucking-accent: livelaughawesome: this is most likely an incredibly unpopular opinion but i feel like i need to say it anyways (tw: suicide) i feel like people should be allowed to commit suicide if they want to because saying they shouldn’t be allowed to is kind of getting...
Feb 22nd
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skiesskies asked: quentin
Feb 22nd
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“Gabrielle Rivera, a Latina, lesbian poet in the Bronx, did a wonderful video....”
– Dan Savage, in an interview with Mother Jones (available here) Does that last bit seem weird to anyone else? Like, “here, let me translate this for you”? She flat out said it doesn’t get better, which honestly it doesn’t for everyone o_O. 
Feb 21st
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Feb 21st
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Lemme say this again for those who didn't catch it...
genderbitch: jemimaaslana: ethiopienne: SURVIVORS. DO. NOT. NEED. YOUR. INPUT. [TW: sexual assault, domestic violence] I cannot tell you how many times I’ve found the courage to speak about what happened to me when I was younger only to hear “…you know you should’ve reported that, right?” or “so you didn’t say anything? what’s wrong with you?” or “well maybe if you had done X or Y or Z he’d...
Feb 21st
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Feb 21st
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Anonymous asked: Question, do you disagree with...
carsonxvx: If you accept an organ from someone who isn’t Straight Edge you are an Edge Breaker. Die for your beliefs. This is seriously my new favorite blog.
Feb 21st
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In case you didn't get the memo...
carsonxvx: If you claim to be Straight Edge or ‘drug free’ and abuse your body with prescription medication, for headaches, stomach pains, anything, you are lying to yourself and devaluing the true meaning of Straight Edge. Keep that impure, industrialized, fabricated, shit, out of your body. You fake edge, drug abuser. Your dependency on medication shows your lack of dedication to the Straight...
Feb 21st
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Saying that I don’t think cis hetero people should use the word ‘queer’ = lose a bunch of followers Posting a picture of condoms = gain a bunch of followers I see your priorities, Tumblr XD
Feb 20th
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Feb 20th
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Why do anarchists only write with lowercase...
anticapitalist: because they’re against capitalism.
Feb 20th
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Just so we're all on the same page
fugue-stasis: airellia: ‘Queer’ is a slur.  Taking on ‘queer’ as an identity means recognizing that it is a slur and trying to reclaim that. Just… be careful how you use it :-/ It’s not a neutral apolitical word.  I’m really frustrated that this is something that keeps having to be said. When people take the word “queer” and say “okay so this actually just means ‘Other’ or ‘non-normative’...
Feb 20th
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Just, okay.
velocidarling: Honestly, at first I bought into the whole EVERYTHING IS A -PHOBIA AND X PRIVILEGE KIND OF SITUATION. But with the help of some wonderful people who also happen to have Tumblrs and a lot of irl conversations and getting my ass kicked around due to my queeritude in really, uh, I mean, in REAL ways … NO. There’s a whole bunch of shit that Tumblr is correctly identifying as shitty...
Feb 20th
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Hey baby, are you an airport, because I'd spend my...
Hey baby, are you an airport? Because I would give up on you when I got frustrated. 
Feb 20th
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 3dela said: for a lot of people in the lqbtq community, using “queer” is very empowering. at my univ., we voted to rename our lgbtq group the “Queer & Ally Student Assembly” and many of my friends prefer “queer” over terms like “bisexual” or “lesbian” Of course. That’s what reclaiming is. But that doesn’t make it a politically neutral term that everyone is or should be...
Feb 20th
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Just so we're all on the same page
‘Queer’ is a slur.  Taking on ‘queer’ as an identity means recognizing that it is a slur and trying to reclaim that. Just… be careful how you use it :-/ It’s not a neutral apolitical word. 
Feb 20th
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imagine if mapcrunch could be played irl
imaginingtheimpossible: consultingalchemist: libraryghost: there would just be thousands of us wandering around in the woods on mountains crying it actually can be played in real life its called “going outside” What is outside?
Feb 20th
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Sunday Sermon: "The Bridge Poem"
imfeministenoughto: Originally published in the anthology ‘This Bridge Called My Back’ in 1983, this poem by Kate Rushin (above) has inspired thousands of women of color worldwide to establish their own feminist roots: I’ve had enough  I’m sick of seeing and touching  Both sides of things  Sick of being the damn bridge for everybody     Nobody  Can talk to anybody  Without me  Right?     I...
Feb 19th
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unknowablewoman: velocidarling replied to your post: what the fuck is “demisexual” damn you didn’t mince words on that one — alternately, it’s the label of the ace community i get the least because 50% of my friends also feel that way about sex? without finding it sufficiently odd or marginalized to identify as demi? yep! most people actually don’t just want to fuck every attractive person...
Feb 19th
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Women of Color--Let's take back our tags!
lauralovegood: airellia: tierracita: Let’s pick a day (arbitrarily going to say Wednesday, February 22nd) and take back our tags! Meaning post yourself being yourself, without any exotifying pretense.  I got really upset/annoyed/raging when I opened the Latina tag for the 10th time only to find exotified images of naked Latinas posted by white men. Now nudity is great, so is sexuality, but...
Feb 19th
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Feb 19th
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universallypopularandwellliked replied to your post: universallypopularandwellliked replied to… Oh man. Yuki Matsuri was so awesome. Just like Nightmarket. FREE FOOD 4EVR. I knooowwww omg. Apparently there is a Japanese bread called melonpan that was there and it reminded me of mallorca which is Puerto Rican bread that is also sweet and it made me happy. Now I am wondering how many...
Feb 19th
Women of Color--Let's take back our tags!
tierracita: Let’s pick a day (arbitrarily going to say Wednesday, February 22nd) and take back our tags! Meaning post yourself being yourself, without any exotifying pretense.  I got really upset/annoyed/raging when I opened the Latina tag for the 10th time only to find exotified images of naked Latinas posted by white men. Now nudity is great, so is sexuality, but when nudity and sexuality as...
Feb 19th
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universallypopularandwellliked replied to your photo: LOOK AT MAH BUNNEH. I made it (read: girl at the… what booth? what’s happening at swellz? Yuki Matsuri origami booth
Feb 19th
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